I love you but I don't always like you...



It still befuddles me that I can always love Ricky but there are some days where I really don't like him. It may seem a little strange to think about but it will happen to every couple. What is important to remember is that you both choose to love each other even in the struggle of liking each other. Love is a commitment, not a temporary feeling. There are going to be some days when you aren't going to be able to be around your significant other, there will be some days where all you want to do is scream and fight with them but at the end of the day, you make that choice to love them through that. It's amazing to see how strong love can be, it can help us discover how deeply we can love and how far we are willing to go for it. Because we want to make sure that we express our love for each other even through times of trials, we give each other at least three reasons why we love each other. We do this if we are feeling those feelings of dislike towards each other when we are doing something that irks the other one. Such as, getting angry or frustrated at work and coming home and taking that anger out on each other or forgetting to clean up a big mess or anything that brings about feelings of negativity. It helps to lift our spirits and it shows each of us that we love each other even through the hard times. It can be challenging to do at times where you are upset with each other and even if that means taking some time to cool off and spend some time by yourself, then by all means do it! Then re-approach the situation and give your significant other that reassurance and encouragement that they need to show them that even though you may dislike them at times, your love for them never changes! Stay happy and beautiful! :)  




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